I know that the title is over the top. I'll give you clickbait even but it is the only thing I could think of that would stress the type of person I have been involved with. Earlier in the Heartaches and Headaches blog I posted about Dating a Narcissistic...
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LGBT: The Worst Date
I don't know if some people are just bad at dating or they just don't care about how they come off in general but it has led me to go on a good amount of bad dates.The worst date I went on I can never forget. This date allowed me to measure what crazy...
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Took a long break from the blog to deal with finishing my Doctorate and enjoy the new path life has sent me on. Life has a way of shaking things up and smacking you in the face when you least expect it but when it does that, it is really opening your...
Read moreLGBT: Time Management
Somebody once told me that you make time for what is important to you. I used to laugh at this because I believed time was already dictated. Think about it! If you have to be to work at 7:00 am then you will be to work at 7:00 am. If work ends at 3:00...
Read moreLGBT: Time to Date Again!
Break-ups are hard in the beginning because most times they are painful and you lose a companion. Most of us go through the different stages of the aftermath of a break-up. We retreat to our own world and don't want to do much. Sometimes we may throw...
Read moreLGBT: If Only For One Night
I am not so much as embarrassed as I am ashamed to say I've had my share of one night stands. Although some were under false pretense because these women may have thought I wanted more but all I wanted was what they were willing to give up on that night....
Read moreLGBT: The Best Friend Conundrum
One of the most difficult parts of a new relationship is fusing your old friends with the new love interest. What I mean is when we enter into a relationship we want to have our new found love and friends become close as well. Think about it! If we are...
Read moreLGBT: Dating Someone With Kids
How did Martin use to say it, "Marty Mart love da kids." And I do as well but dating someone who has kids can be a task. When you date someone who has a kid especially in a gay or lesbian relationship there are some challenges. I dated three women who...
Read moreLove and Appreciation
How many times in a relationship do you feel under appreciated? It can be in any relationship. It an be a friendship, parent to child, work or a romantic relationship. I am a firm believer of letting someone know they are valued for the things they do...
Read moreLGBT: U-haul Lesbians
Once lesbians figure they are in love and ready to go after two weeks, they are making moves together. Meaning, they are moving in together. It does not take long for lesbians to take that huge leap to live together. Lesbians love being around their significant...
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